HI Gabe, I have been lurfing areound thses bb's for a while and write occationally. While reading your post on moving into your marital home, I started crying. You had noticed that your wife had not fed the birds, her roses had died. You know, that is how my life ahs been the last 2 1/2 years since my H left. I feel like I want to do those things, but just can't find the energy. When I do, it feels like such a chore. I'm working on getting that part of my life back. Because that is what I was all about. I know it was your wife that left, and I'm sure it has been difficult for you to see that she let those things go.
