I wanted to add that I am sure it was very hard for ex to pack up and move from your marital home. I bet she cried just like you did. Sounds like she is very depressed letting the place get that filthy. I am embarassed to say that I would let my old place get so filthy. It was because I was very, very depressed. I would have never done that otherwise. Wife is depressed because her life isn't what she thought it would be. She will figure things out though and do what it takes to make her life good again. Hopefully, she will realize that losing you is the reason her life is now so unhappy. Why don't these fools realize that divorce is not the answer?
