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What other things do 6yo do? Pull her hair, maybe show her some bugs?



Yeah, and run up and punch or kiss, too!

Gabe, please know that I was thinking about you and S6 this weekend, and I suspected this was going to be pretty hard. I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to call you...family things have been nuts lately and pulling me in 100 different directions.

Something that helped me, after I got past the initial shock of moving/putting stuff into storage (and yes, there was a fair amount of sobbing and knee-buckling too) was to remember that it's all just stuff. It's just a house, made of 2x4s, cement, brinks, siding, shingles and drywall. It's just stuff, dude.

I know it's hard to think of things that way, but we anthropormorphize inanimate objects. The stuff that constructs your house could give a rats patooty about who lives there. It's just stuff. It's just molecules.

It's just stuff...just material things.

Hang in there, honey.


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