If instead, it was just a ploy to get another baby, I am left with this giant uncertainty as to whether or not she will ever have the desire for sex. Haven't you talked to her about this? I mean her desire for sex, not her ploy. Did you talk to her about that week she wanted sex and now does not? Does she give you any answers? I remember you saying in one of your posts that you were afraid what the answer would be. Can't blame you there. At least there is hope now. Is she the one who came up with the 1 year (gulp) time line? Sorry for blasting you with all the questions but you know I am genuinely interested and care about you Globule so I am rolling along with my assertive self