Blackfoot, this: "Never believe what a woman says especially when it has the word feelings in it," was such an unhelpful way of putting it. Discounting a woman's feelings is not the way to her heart... surely you've figured that out by now.

Yes lil. poorly worded. I didnt say discount them, I said dont believe them. Dont internalize them, dont belive them inside as being unyeilding and unchangeable. dont let them sway you. If it is a feeling it can be changed. Even when followed with nevers, too much etc.

How are things going with you Lil?