"She had her own motives beyond hot sex there for sure." I have wondered about that with the second pregnancy and it does bother me a bit because she knew I was a bit leery of having another child. Its one of those things I just need to let go of because there is nothing I can do about it. I fear you are right about her motive (to have the new baby). But so what now? You are also right that you have to let that go or the resentment will continue to grow. Geez, if I held on to everything my H did with ulterior motives I would have been in on to H number 2 already, preferably with house on beach and Javier the pool boy fetching me pina coladas. Hmmm...come to think of it...Maybe I should re-assess this H situation. Just a joke!! If I don't laugh I'll cry
