"I dont know your campus, but just go out to a bench and sit there by yourself for awhile. Or go to the cafeteria by yourself, sit by yourself, and just watch people go by. while you think things over. comtemplate, ruminate, meditate. whatever. I dont mean hide in a book or a laptop, paperwork. Just sit there, with nothing visible to do." Interesting suggestion. Have you found that doing that periodically helps clear your head. What I'd like to do is go to the beach for a few days alone and just sit there, but there are no beaches anywhere near me.
"She wants to, just doesnt know if it is possible and isnt sufficiently attracted to want to do more then wait for him to 'fix' things. I repeat Globule she wants to, she wants it to be good. Believe this, act like this and she will believe it too." Processing.
BTW I did finally make the appt with the self-esteem counselor. He was actually able to get me in in just two weeks. So I'll probably start with him, the psychiatrist, and the MC at about the same time.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
