At this stage in my life, I would trade good looks for an EC with hot-sex in a heart-beat. And along the same lines, hot-sex has nothing to do with good looks either. It does have a little to do with being in shape though. Of course, what do I know about hot sex So true, Globule. The mind is much more powerful than the body. Just look at how we relate to people on this board and none of us have met or know anything more than what we present on the board. Yet, I feel like I "know" you. Know what I mean? (lol). You are very REAL to me even if it is all in my head. As for you not knowing about "hot sex", that's not true. Once again, sex is all in the mind. Your attitude towards sex and the EC that should go with it speaks volumes about how you would "be" sexually. Don't discount that. You are SEXUAL even if you are not presently having sex. That's more than some people.