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"Did you have any of these feelings toward your wife at the intiation of your relationship?"
Sorry I don't understand your question. Do you mean that I thought my wife was self-serving and self-deceptive? And I can't see how my second statement logical precedes your question. I guess my brain is all messed up.





What I meant was did you have similar feeling towards your wife in the beginning of your relationship as the feelings you have experienced with the co-worker?

In regards to the self-serving, self-deceiving remark - please know that I don't mean to single you out in this regard as being any more horrible than I. We're all guilty of it at times. Pointing it out to you was not for the purpose of judging you as "bad", but was for the purpose of "rethink this, there's some justification going on in your thought process."

MrsNOP -