"Earlier you said it wasn't her choice. You reiterated that thought here." I don't see how I reiterated that thought, but it wouldn't surprise me if I did. I know that she made a choice and that choice was not me.
"That is betrayal to your spouses of the crassest sort." You are right. I don't know how my wife can forgive me. I hope she will though.
"Why is this what you should have done?" I don't understand the question. Isn't it logical that we both should have become aware that what we were doing was wrong and made the decision to break it off before it got to the point that it did?
" don't know that you will stop thinking about her as long as you get to see her 5 days a week." I guess I didn't make myself clear earlier. I haven't seen her at all since a week before the breakup, I haven't had direct contact with her except two phone calls in which we discussed aspects of the project we are working on. The only information I have about her personal issues is from the mutual friend.
"I am not trying to bust your chops." Well let me know when you are going to do it and I'll be sure to bring some heavy-duty head gear.
"Did you have any of these feelings toward your wife at the intiation of your relationship?" Sorry I don't understand your question. Do you mean that I thought my wife was self-serving and self-deceptive? And I can't see how my second statement logical precedes your question. I guess my brain is all messed up.
Sorry LFL, I was trying to be Mr. Cool today. Didn't work for long. I'll do better tomorrow. Although I gotta perk up somehow before I go home.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
