I kinda like both the nice hotel and the camping. It depends on who I'm with. If I'm with someone who likes to stay up all night chatting over a fire, I'll take the tent. If I'm with someone who wants to hit the hotel bar, then the beach, then get a movie on the hotel TV well ...
I have heard people say that you should write everything down before an appointment. I'm going to do that for both the MC and the psychiatrist. I like your point about how I really know more than the C what I need to make it work. I gotta remember that and not let her talk me into something that feels wrong without at least probing the issue in depth.
I have asked her about her expectations, and she was very vague. I am afraid that she will say that she doesn't feel the need for sex anymore if I really press her. I think I will take Honeypot's advice and chill out for awhile. But I'll keep all this in the back of my mind. They don't delete old threads here do they?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
