Your timing is so collossally bad that I cannot keep quiet any longer! Glob, PLEASE for the sake of your M and kids, just chill for a few weeks and let the woman heal. I think you are correct, Honeypot. The timing sucks. A few weeks is totally resonable. My impression was he was venting here more than anything and not directly to his W. Thus, talking in the posts about what they will be discussing in C. Nothing wrong with preparing now for later.