Well, I certainly hope that the W is not taking all the responsibility for the troubles in our marriage on her shoulders. I definitely have not tried to give her the impression that I feel like she is solely to blame for our problems. I know that the path to where we are now is riddled with my own mistakes. Maybe I should take the time to point out to her what mistakes I made so that she will know that I am taking blame for this.
I am pretty darn sure that if our marriage fails it will not be because of OW. I mean, she has her own marriage, so there is really no temptation for me to leave W for her because she won't have me (not to mention that I don't want to leave W). Maybe my W sees it differently, and she will never be able to get over the EA, who knows. I sincerely hope not.
Thanks for sharing your story with me.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
