Quote: I'll have to admit that I did not make it absolutely clear how I felt about OW or what she meant to me. The C warned me not to give any details and basically to stop talking about it to the W saying it would just cause her unecessary pain. I've been trying to find ways to let the W know how OW made me feel and the things it made me aware of that I need without tying it to the EA. It is a difficult dance for sure, and I know my wife is probably smart enough to see me doing it.
Does your wife want to talk about it? Has she ever asked you questions about it? I've read through your thread, but must have missed how, when and why you told her and what her reaction was and is. Have you said and I missed it? If so, let me know and I'll dig back through. If not, would you post it?
