Maybe she finds your actions of feeling sorry for yourself over the lose of OW as selfish and is disgusted with it. I am sorry but if my H behaved as such I would find it incredulous. That instead of crying out of sorrow for the pain inflicted on me the wife he would be crying out of lose of the OW in my presence and find myself very appalled in his presense The man was just told us he was on the verge of suicide. I think we can cut him some slack for crying on the floor.
