neanderthals (sp?). Yes, that is spelled correctly and it is pronounced TALL not THAL at the end (I almost majored in anthropology).
Do you think it would be better to bring these feelings out in front of a third party (the C)? Who can say for sure. I found it made no difference whether this stuff came up in front of C or not. Don't put all of your hopes into the C sessions. They are there to assist you but will not provide answers. You need to come up with that on your own
The bleak possible future ahead of me with no sex and little or no affection makes me feel weak at times. That hurts to read also. I am way ahead of you in this dept but it is all a matter of degree. I am still not satisfied with the way things are going. Not so much the sex, but the EC. Unfortunately, you are lacking both I'm not sure how long I would have been able to stay with the M if H did not start showing me SOMETHING in the way of sexual intimacy. He is making efforts which counts for a lot. Your W really needs to show you some small gesture and SOON. Screw waiting a year! You'll go batty by then. Make sure you bring that up to the C.
"I think she assumes you are just going to go back to being "normal" Globule and life goes on"
I can assure you that is not going to happen. I couldn't do it if I wanted to. I think I have made that clear to her but I'll try again.
 I totally agree with you here. I couldn't go back if I wanted to. I have told H this and he likes the new me better anyways. Your W needs to embrace the new you as well. Hopefully she will come to her senses and not make things worse than they already are