Can it really be this simple? I mean simple as in what it is, not how to deal with it. She doesn't feel like I have apologized enough? If that is all it is, and that is all it takes, then I'm there. Question for you, how do you apologize profusely without groveling? Where is the line?
I will level with her on how I feel and what I want. I think trying to find ways to get through to her using examples is good. Sometimes direct statements maybe too abstract.
I am prepared for her to let me have it. I welcome it. I have always felt that once she lets whatever is bothering her out, then and only then can she start to let go of it.
Maybe this was the first crack in the wall. We'll see. Thanks for your thoughts.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"