"Wanted to bang my head against a wall." Ahhh, so your forehead has a funny slope to it just like mine, and probably like everyone else's here. We can call ourselves the relationship neanderthals (sp?).
"made him feel bad. No sh*t sherlock " My feelings exactly. You've got to get past the bad before you get to the good.
"You need to share these feelings with your W too. She will not change until she UNDERSTANDS where you are coming from." Boy is that tough, but maybe you are right. Do you think it would be better to bring these feelings out in front of a third party (the C)?
"I feel so much stronger and more confident about myself, don't you?" I some ways yes, and in other ways no. The bleak possible future ahead of me with no sex and little or no affection makes me feel weak at times.
"I think she assumes you are just going to go back to being "normal" Globule and life goes on" I can assure you that is not going to happen. I couldn't do it if I wanted to. I think I have made that clear to her but I'll try again.
"Hope you can relate to most of this. I feel better just writing it to you" I do and I feel the same way. Very glad to have met you.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
