Let me just say Lil that I'm sure I probably did say some things that came across as attacking her or being unrealistic. I don't want anyone here to think that I thought I was being Mr Goody Two-Shoes and my wife was the wicked witch. But it wasn't her response to those statements that bothered me, it was the response to the "you know I love you" statement.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"