The saga continues

[cinemanymph]

globule,

(A) I felt like I could say anything and she would listen to me, understand me, and not judge me
(B) I felt like we had the same general goals in life
(C) I felt passion when she looked at me, or smiled at me, or on those brief instances when we touched
(D) I felt like she cared about me
(E) I felt like she was willing to make time for me
(F) I felt like she admired me
(G) I felt like she was attracted to me physically
(H) I felt like it wouldn't have been much effort to get into a mode where we could ML (although that is a guess)
(I) I felt like she would be open to doing new things
(J) And everything that I just mentioned I felt for her in return and she appreciated it openly

I could only aspire to be this good.

Are there small steps your W could take to begin to achieve these things? Is there a way to convince her that there is something in it for her (beyond sexual bliss, which for a fair number of LD folks is an abstraction at best). Is she athletic? Does she appreciate that her body can sustain and bring forward life? Is she amazed by nature? What does she love to do?