globule, I started posting here last July and have with the help of these wise folks on the board have gone from not caring if my H went outside of marriage to get his needs met to really cultivating the HD side of me. If you have read my current sitch, you'll see that my H is not positively responding to the changes I've made. I want to stress that my H is unique and that you may reach your nirvana within your R.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"