My past experience as a LDW is fresh enough to relate to your W. I have said before that there seems to be a perception that low desire people enjoy the power that their dimished sexuality gives them, the opposite couldn't be more true. It is heartbreaking to feel that one's body doesn't respond in the way it is meant to. Having experienced both LD and HD, I can definetly say that HD is a preferable state of being. For chronic LD people HD is hard to achieve and maintain. It's worth the effort.
What is your objective for your R? Do you see any way that you and your W can align your objectives?
You know the awesome feeling that an R that works can give you. Unfortunately that knowledge came from a source of pain for your W. Are you looking to duplicate the feelings you experienced in your EA with your W?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
