"If not talking about every possible thing with our future spouses makes us stupid and naive I believe alot of us would be on the same boat. And without paddles."
"I do have a question for you. Not meaning this offensively so please do not take it as such. How often does someone in your household cry. You refer to yourself and or your wife crying quite often in situations/discussions.(if not crying feeling the need to cry). I find it amazing that you are such a emotional person. I would probably get overwhelmed by it IRL but here in cyber world I find it amazing. And wondered how frequently this really happens for either you or your wife. I hope you don't mind me asking."
I don't mind at all. Although I am a very emotional person, I don't let it out all the time. Most of the time I just cry to myself when I am reasonably sure she can't hear me (I'm not looking for sympathy in that way). I'd say I probably cry about every other day right now, just from the aftereffects of the EA and the frustrations I feel having to wait for things to get better. The wife doesn't cry much (unless she also does it when I'm not looking). She only does it sometimes when we talk and get on topics she doesn't like. Most of the time she just says she doesn't want to talk anymore.
"Also on another note are your twins identical? You see so many twins these days but seldom are they identical. Another thing I find amazing."
No they are fraternal ... very much so.
"Hope you are having a relaxing evening" Sort of. Didn't bring up any big topics last night. Just prodded her about possibly buying a hot tub next summer with some of the extra money I'm going to get (you know what I'm thinking). She got a little defensive because she wants to get lasec (sp?) surgery for her eyes. We should have enough money to do both. Oh well.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
