dealing with the whispers

[Pipeliners_wife]

You are so right Unsure, its time for some different friends. I need to hang around healthy, upbeat, positive, outgoing, fun people. Friends like that are hard to come by.

I just hope one day sooner than later, I will be able to forget everything bad that has happened in our R. I'm not hung up on any of the details, which I'm proud of. In fact my H and I are doing better than I expected. I like to think of us as being role models for other R's. But its those damn whispers that eat me alive at night. I try so hard not to let them bother me, and for the most part I don't care what people think of me. For what ever reason, whispers burn the most.

How do others deal with this????