dealing with the whispers

[Pipeliners_wife]

I saved my marriage, and life couldn't be any better at this point. however, I am being judged by friends. They are talking behind my back as well to my face. I've been told I have no backbone, that there is no way they would put up with their partner doing what my H did.

A girl I know just broke up with her boyfriend of 7 years, and was upset about it. I kindly suggested she read DR. Her comment was "oh no, my b/f wouldn't screw around on me, our situation is different. I wouldn't put up with what you did."..... Did I miss something???? Her b/f dumped her, just like my H did to me, and somehow that is different? I get told all the time, oh, so and so wanted to know how everything is going. So I'd tell them things are wonderful. One person said, well thats this week what about next week.

I'm seeing that no one wants another person to be happier that them. Everyone gets off gossiping behind each others backs.

Is there any advice on dealing with these types of people.

They make me feel like a joke, that maybe they know something I don't. Its amazing how many people tell me today that they knew we would break up. Yet these people attended our wedding, and supported us.

How can I get over the feeling of being a loser for wanting to save my marriage?

If only I could run away from the whole situation. But I know I can't. I'm getting to the point that I hate hanging out with anyone. I'm a party girl that is wanting to party solo these days just to hide from the laughter.

Please, I need advice on this hurdle.