Quote: If H has let go of the A but you continue to bring it back and put it front and center, that will cause problems.
Yes, this is very true. But at this time, I think it is onl affecting me. I dont talk to my H about these things I think about. What could he do? Get angry? Reassure me? I dont know, but obviously its only bothering me, so I need to find a way to deal with it.
I do honeslty feel that H is with me in mind, body and spirit though. OW is not a thought in his brain anymore. The little things that he does for me, they just let me know that he is honestly thinking about me and making sure I am happy.
I guess I just really need to let the past, be in the past...and thats why after this wedding, it will be a brand new year, a clean, fresh new start. That will be MY new years goal anyways!
