Hmmmm,

Well, I do in the sense feel as if we are a success story because DB helped us to be where we are today. H is not having an affair and he is more involved in my life than he ever was!!

Ok, OW is not DIRECTLY in our lives. And maybe I am the one still "putting" her in our lives indirectly. How do I not know that if H was doing all these things for other friends that were NOT OW family, I would still feel the same way. I do think that I would. Ok. So that is an issue I need to address and work on and talk to my H about. I did not say that things were "perfect", I just said I felt we were finally a success story.

I do not feel that OW is still or will ever be a threat to our M again. I guess I just wish she would just disappear from our lives. But, H has been friends with this family since they were in HS together and I am sure that will never change either. This wedding we are going to will be the first time H has had any contact with OW since almost a year ago. I dont know what he thinks it will be like, but I can guarantee it will not be as easy for him as he thinks. I think they will both be uncomfortable and probably just avoid each other. I guess I will just have to wait and see. I do feel we will come back from this wedding stronger. H will see just how wonderful I am! Hows that for positive attitude???