On December 5 you said "Now, almost 2 years and a WHOLE LOTTA LEARNING later, I finally feel safe and secure enough in my M to say that we are definately a DB success story!"

Now, just ten days later you are talking about how much the OW is still involved in your lives. How can the comments above be valid with OW still so involved? I don't want to do anything than challange you to take a very close look at your sitch in an effort to deal with the reality of it head on. Can you really be a DB success story and feel safe and secure in your M AND have all of these issues with OW and a H that is putting the OW ahead of you, your needs and your M?

Again, please take these comments in the helpful way they are being presented. Perhaps there is a bit more work to be done?

DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D