Last weekend I talked to a friend of mine from back home. She has said there was an incident between her H, who owns a bar, and a co-worker. It was nothing major, but enough to get her into freak out mode! She said she didn't know how I did it last year, because what had happened in her life was NOTHING compared to what happened to me, but she said she was a zombie for weeks! But, things got resolved with her and her H, but it was so hard to see this happening with them. But, she did say things were heading in a different direction for them..a good one. I told her that I honestly felt God has things like this happen to help open our eyes to what is really going on in our lives and to make us start dealing with them so that we can move foreward. Before this, I really didnt see my friend as being very happy and her H didnt treat her well, so all in all...I guess this was a good thing that happened.