2much, please don't think this crirical of me but the underlying message as I see it in your post today only reaches those of us who have realized our shortcommings. They appear to enslave us to a life of searching for the elusive Holy Grail of friendship or partnership. If the ones we love or meet never realize what we on this forum have learned, how can there be any chance of closeness with someone. We are doomed to be doormats and will be chasing a dream that can never come true.

Sorry just feeling a little hopeless today.

No offence.

ABM

I'm not sure I'm living better, but I am living different. My Sitch