Honeypot, I agree--the sexual issue should be addressed directly and simultaneously with the other issues. I initiated a kissing exercise over the weekend, and it evolved into a sexual experience. We're starting to develop a track record of positive sexual experiences. This has been occurring for several months. I think the goal at this point is to maintain consistency, and avoid "drought" periods of two weeks or more. The experience still centers around intercourse. The long-term goal will be to become more comfortable in the foreplay and postcoital periods.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
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