Quote: I don't know what her frequency preference is or mine regarding sexual intercourse.
I'm surprised this hasn't come up in counseling. I mean, if you don't know what it is, then how are you supposed to work towards a happy medium for you both? I can certainly see how you were taken aback and hurt that it wasn't enough.
Quote: Having a sexual relationship with my W is new territory for me.
Why? Have you not been married long?
Quote: She has given me positive feedback regarding the exercises in the past.
Good for you! That's great. You know, we spend so much time trying to figure out exactly what our mates want and need from us, and it's nice sometimes to have a sort of "map" to allow us to know where we are succeeding and what to do more of.
