Anyway, Is it even possible to get back the awesome relationship we had and eventually pride our relationship on the fact that we can trust the other again?
It's happened many times. But are you guys trying to go forward all on your own? Are you just trying to get back to where you were before all this went down?
Because if so, I think your odds of successfully reconciling would be higher if you found a good marriage counselor, or at least read some books together. If the two of you don't learn how to make things different and better, how can you know you won't fall into the same patterns and end up back where you were? You want to make sure you're both actively working to build your R and make it better than it was.
Is your H willing to make his life more transparent to you so you're comfortable that he's no longer involved with OP?
Stop WaitingFeel EverythingLove AchinglyGive ImpeccablyLet Go
