So happy to hear you are doing well. It's so amazing how the DB stuff works; not only for your marriage but mainly for yourself.
I'm in the same boat as you. I too feel that maybe H is who I no longer want to be with. Just have to see if there are any positive changes from H in the new year.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years