H is now the frusterated one...he hates that its the other way around...and he tries to argue because he wants us like it was before his affair....well my new outlook is for ME to be happy. If that is with or without him. I am a new happy me again and we will just have to see what that brings.
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Stop WaitingFeel EverythingLove AchinglyGive ImpeccablyLet Go
Thanks for checking in! I'm so glad you are doing well and are happy! Letting go is hard in the beginning but it gets easier and you do find happiness again. I'm just so glad you are doing well!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
So happy to hear you are doing well. It's so amazing how the DB stuff works; not only for your marriage but mainly for yourself.
I'm in the same boat as you. I too feel that maybe H is who I no longer want to be with. Just have to see if there are any positive changes from H in the new year.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
