BQT~ Sweetie, that's a terrible thing for you to see.
It's time to get organized. Yes, this is a pro-marriage site, but not for marriages as emotionally abusive as yours. Get your Yellow Pages. There are not-for-profit resources that offer financial planning to help you get organized. Make a solid plan for you and Hannah, and start to truly build your life without him. Use the resources that are available to you and you will start seeing that you have options. You are not trapped and you can totally do this!
We all adore you here and want the best for you, ok?
