BQT - Glad to see you are O.K. As for your feelings of OW I do know how you feel. I don't think I could truly cope if H had stayed with OW as I feel she was instrumental in our breakup....Truth is H had just as much say in this affair if not more and something led him to this affair but I cannot help it I still have OW issues and as long as he stays not with her, it makes it easier.
So what I am saying is OW will disappear one day it may not mean that H comes back but a R that starts of the way theirs has through an Affair is never going to be the basis of a strong R. She is obviously insecure to inform you of everything. I just wanted you to know that someone else does understand but one day you will want to move on for you and Hannah and I will be behind you when that day comes.....KDU
