I'm glad you started another thread because you had written:

"Tell me if I am wrong but I feel that if he really loves me then he would be nice and when I finally started crying out of frustration that he would do anything to comfort me and not be extremely rude and mean to me. "

and I wanted to respond:

That's right, and based on what else he's doing that you've written about, I'd say you really need to forget about him for your own sake and move on.