HP, Happy 1st birthday to babypot! Can you believe it's been a year? Hmm, about that anvil. Good to hear the loving feelings came rushing back, I know you were missing them. Big bummer that MrH also went right back too. I suspect it is more of a minor backslide. It was probably the first good night of sleep he's had in the last 2 months, KWIM?
If he does it again however, I think you should take that rope of yours (you know the one you can't put down) and tie it tightly around his nuts and give it a good yank (ouch!), LOL! Bet he wouldn't fall asleep on you after that! Don't be trying to stuff anything more in that TSBOR, you are supposed to be emptying it, not filling it. That means, talk to him, let him know your feelings, not jsut about the resentment for him falling asleep, but also that your loving feelings are coming back, and that you need his help to keep them in place.
