Interesting question. I'll ask him. It never occurred to me that this might be a road block for him.
Truly, the kids are so overwhelming to him that a more likely explanation is that he just doesn't FEEL the feelings when they are around. It is so hard for him to switch gears. He also can't read a book or watch tv or make a sandwich or do the dishes when they are around. (they are normal kids, btw, not total heathens, lol) He is not much of a multi-tasker and that is one of the things we've joked about many times. When I think about him at work, I marvel at the fact that he multi-tasks there--because I know what enormous amounts of concentration it must take for him to pull that off.
Anyway, back to your question. How would H answer this question: Is it healthy for kids to see their parents interacting in a mildly sexual manner?
Stay tuned. lol
P.S. Anyone want to guess what I was doing a mere year ago, on this day?