Quote: how hard is it really to kiss your wife, compliment her sexually and pat her @ss a couple of times every day?"
My H would say that it would be easy, were it not for our kids. I understand that, as a person, he is just more easily overwhelmed than I am, but how much slack do I give him in this area?
Should I be willing to wait until the kids are older before I expect this sort of thing to happen?