HP, he is sharing what he is feeling now. That is a big, no gargantuan, step for him. He would have kept it bottled up before, leaving you totally in the dark

I agree with you GGB, but the way he is doing it(tentative and fearful, because of insecurity) and the circumstances that provoked it have left HP with some feelings of resentment and insecurity also. Crashing insecurities... but HP is showing a tremendous amount of loyaly, commitment, devotion, and maturity in her working thru this despite her lose of of those lovinnnnggggg feeelllingssss, whoooaa thoosssee lovinnng feeelingsss. (righteous brothers lol) Her growing up comment was very self-aware.