Actually I wasn't intending to imply that you had offended me or that I thought YOU thought women with higher SD's are nyphos or addicts...sorry about that, that truly was a statement not pointed at anyone in general, just based on comments I have heard in the past from men.
If you'll go back through many of Honeypots posts...you'll see that much of their problem is based on her LDH's problem with, basically...self-denial. In the past he had a history of denying himself pleasure so-to-speak. He could be visibly aroused, yet not act on it. That type of thing. Honeypot, I know I'm not even hitting on any of your major problems here...just using an example.
My H also withheld due to prior conditioning and lack of trust from prior R's. The truly sad thing is both HP's hubby and mine married women with higher sex drives. We are women many men think don't even exist who are perfectly normal, well-adjusted, rational thinking, and very sensual.
I just wanted to stop your "addict" theory...not because it doesn't have valuable info, I believe it does. I'm sure there are people here would could fit into that, but because I really felt you were headed down the wrong road with her
