Bringing up sexual addiction was due to what I said earlier. There are plenty of cases like I described. That doesn’t mean you are one, but those who are addicted like this don’t even know it. You seem aware enough, by your posting on this board, but sometimes even the obvious eludes us. It was just a thought that occurred to me that I thought I would run by you, that’s all.
I really can’t disagree with anything you say. But you two are unhappy and you would like that to improve. Due to my background, I tend to always look at myself first before the other person. So if you have something you can fix, then do it. It will lessen his defense against you.
By the way, what did you mean by “Oh and western religion is shaming and closed to different behaviors. Ya don't say.”? It is not offensive to me in the least, but there seems to be more behind that statement.
