Let me ask you this: Why would you suggest I look into sex addiction? What in my writings has led you to believe that this could be an issue?
When I want sex it is for two reasons: Because I physically need it and/or I love my H and want to be close to him. The order in which I wrote that has no significance, incidentally.
There is no pain in my life, with the exception of the pain caused by our mismatched libidos. I am an enneagram type 7 and usually feel happy and cheerful.
Oh and western religion is shaming and closed to different behaviors. Ya don't say.
Quote: But I was not sure if yours was emotionally based (in which I think you might look into it) or biologically based (which can’t be changed without meds), assuming you want to change it at all (if you were my wife I certainly wouldn’t want you to change).
Heck no I don't want to change. Why should I? I've been this way as long as I can remember and I quite like myself. I am attempting to reshape my marital expectations so that they better fit with my spouses, but at my core I will always think that wanting sex 4 times per week is fine and dandy and he is crazy for not jumping all over that.
