Its Honey pot, not pity pot, get off there.
your life and your M arent over a by a long shot,
You have a lot of great things in your life, Sh!t I detest living in a Large City, its hell on earth for me, and listening to you all go on about your gardens, and back 40, etc gets me jonesing. Ahhh. Soon.

Anyways you guys are really close, 4 isnt that big a stretch from 2.

I'm not all that turned on by a man who has to remember to schedule

understood, but Everything he does is for you and kids. His life revolves around that, so anything that threatens his ability to take care of it-- are going to stress him.


GEL'S H comments were right on for most... I cant think of one who isnt ..... all guys. We often put so much emphasis on the provider, that we forget its really the EC. Some ladies do the same, in a different way, they put so much empahasis on there looks, and they are so nervous, when we much prefer a woman who is confidant and Comfortable in her skin. Not saying any HDW here is like that. Simmer down.

Raising hand, yep I did it. I KNOW KNOW KNOW, and I was still guilty of it. We are dumb. Help us out.
See if there is a "Different way" that you can commnicate this. Actions speak Loudest.

I think things are going to get better.