Lass, One of the things we both agreed to do when this "ILYBNILWY" crapola hit the fan was to get our hormones checked out. He is convinced that he has high T still...and he probably does...but he has a LOT of thyroid symptoms, and has since I met him. I want to get mine checked because my hair won't stop falling out. It went thru that "I just had a baby and my hair's falling out" stage but has not stopped. When we were on vacation, my head got sunburned and I realized with a sickening feeling that it was because my hair is thinning! Ewwwww. So that, combined with the fact that I've not been acting or feeling myself lately (an understatement), drives me to want to go check it out. I've always had thick shiny bouncy hair and now it sorta lays flat to my head.
MrH feels strongly that my freakout has a hormonal component. It's funny how he will NOT attribute any of his..ahem..quirks...to hormones but all of mine are, lol. It's possible but I'm not bankin on it. I actually think we are both normal but with mismatched libidos. Oh, and stubborn.
Thanks for checking in. I am pleased with all the progress too.
Oh the book. Yeah. What the heck IS my problem with that? I suppose it has become the poster child for all the floating resentment, in my brain. It has all coagulated into this ONE comment..about this ONE book..and the fact that he's not following through with it.
Plus, I feel that he thinks that he's got the skills he needs to make me happy; he just needed this wakeup call in order to see that he HAD to do it. Not in ten years when his career is better and the kids are older--now.
Well, this might sound mean, but I don't think he has all the skills that he needs. Reading a book would really benefit a guy like him, who had no dating experience prior to me.
But I've dropped that rope. As you can see, I am still a little resentful of it but I can get over that. I just FIRST had to get over the urge to buy the book, unwrap it, hand deliver it to him and then prop his eyelids open with toothpicks so he could finish it. Ok, do I get my props since I didn't do the last part??
