I was talking to my H this morning and he really hurt my feelings. I was talking up the weekend and told him that I was looking forward to it. He went on to say that he wasn't and he would rather work than to sit around the house. Again, trying to be positive told him that it didn't matter what we did, it was good just to spend time together and he asked me "what do we do"? We just sit around looking at each other. My response to that was well, we don't have to. He kept on insinuating that work was more fun than just "hanging" around the house. What does all this mean? I really thought he would look forward to the weekend for no other reason that to spend with me. Does anyone have any advise on this? I started to think, OK, what can I do to make the weekend more enjoyable for him? I thought I could surprise him and go to a B&B, which we always enjoyed in the past, but I'm not sure that wouldn't backfire. Does anyone have any advise or insight as to why he is feeling this way?
