I woke up this morning in a particular sad mood. I talked with H this morning and I tried to be as loving as I could when I asked him a question about Valentines day last year. I asked him why he felt it necessary to give the OW Valentines candy when he was trying to break it off with her. He became defensive and told me he didn't care if I knew that answer and that he didn't need this. He hung up on me and cut his telephone off. I cannot understand this behavior. If it matters to me, why doesn't he want to discuss this with me? I'm again confused and back in this in the dark place. Feeling again rejected and again second guessing. Help me, please. I've took a step backwards. I'm not sorry I brought this up because it really was very heavy on my mind. Why can't he share? Need advise, please!!!!
