Gwyn
I enjoyed reading your perspective on your R with your H.

I search inside myself to see if I have any of these same feelings. I don't think I do. But, I am happy for you that you do. I hope you and your H find your way back to a wonderful marriage that works for both of you.

Thanks for the insight.

Spitfire

Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain